As I having bit of funk from work for being slightly misunderstood, it makes me wonder if this is more bothering me because of my life history of having to explain myself regarding the face and other perceptions I get from people.
Friends and family help a lot to get over this feeling for moment, however, some little incidents at work sometimes have this feeling creep back in.
I do have friends and family who adores me no matter who I am, how I look and talk, and I also know that this should be enough. However, it makes me think, perhaps we all need to be “the” friend to ourselves, first.
Everyone has reason for being wary of people who are different especially when they are new to the place. We can’t keep on explain ourselves nor be defensive and not open up but if I believe myself as a good friend, it perhaps be slightly easier on days like these.
What do you think?
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